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Monday, May 29, 2006
i just finish my lunch .. yummy yummy.. i love to eat cup noodles.. they are soo delicious but then i should start cutting down on eating too much msg... hehehe.. i watch listening to 933 at around 11.30 and they have the repeat of the story thingy.. erm.. to those faithful 933 listener this should be rather familiar to you.. anyway, as i was saying, todays story is about ....... ( to lazy to tell) hehehehe.. i am just writing about this because i am amazed at how guys can change their feelings.. they can say they like you at this moment and the next moment they act as if they didnt say that to you... blame it on something call 'puppy love" hahahahaha.. come on..there are no reasons to justify your change of heart... never say something you dont mean it.. just like when you say you will love someone FOREVER... FOREVER? this word is for too absolute ... as if it will really happen.. just a few days ago, my teacher told me she story about the day before her marriage when she have this feeling of calling everything off.. the husband was terrified.. he told her" dont play games with me.. everything is ready.. all the guest will be coming tml." my teacher then got even more piss off by the fact that he is more concern about the guests.. but then the reason why she suddenly have this feeling of calling off everything is that the words in the marriage vows somehow sink into her.. i wanted to search the net for a marriage vows but then instead of finding the websites i want, i found some disgusting website.. GOSH.. but thank goodness, i found this before i gave up..
(men): will you have this women as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in the estate of matriminy? will you love her, honour her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live?
(women): will you have this men as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the estate of matriminy? will you love him, honour him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live?
breaking down into bite size pieces 1) "will you have this.." signifies acceptance 2) "will you live together..." signifies oneness 3) "will you love..." signifies regard and affection 4) "will you honour.." signifies respect and distinction 5) "will you comfort.." signifies relief and consolation 6) "will you keep .." signifes nurturing and protection 7) "will you forsake all others..." signifies commitment 8) "will you be true..." signifies faithfulness
and finally, will you be able to carry out all of these things, for as long as you both shall live?
as you can see, marriage vows are not to be taken lightly or granted.. no wonder my teacher hesitated befiore marrying her husband.. but then in the end she still married him.. and it is a happy marriage... (^___^)
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i just finish my lunch .. yummy yummy.. i love to eat cup noodles.. they are soo delicious but then i should start cutting down on eating too much msg... hehehe.. i watch listening to 933 at around 11.30 and they have the repeat of the story thingy.. erm.. to those faithful 933 listener this should be rather familiar to you.. anyway, as i was saying, todays story is about ....... ( to lazy to tell) hehehehe.. i am just writing about this because i am amazed at how guys can change their feelings.. they can say they like you at this moment and the next moment they act as if they didnt say that to you... blame it on something call 'puppy love" hahahahaha.. come on..there are no reasons to justify your change of heart... never say something you dont mean it.. just like when you say you will love someone FOREVER... FOREVER? this word is for too absolute ... as if it will really happen.. just a few days ago, my teacher told me she story about the day before her marriage when she have this feeling of calling everything off.. the husband was terrified.. he told her" dont play games with me.. everything is ready.. all the guest will be coming tml." my teacher then got even more piss off by the fact that he is more concern about the guests.. but then the reason why she suddenly have this feeling of calling off everything is that the words in the marriage vows somehow sink into her.. i wanted to search the net for a marriage vows but then instead of finding the websites i want, i found some disgusting website.. GOSH.. but thank goodness, i found this before i gave up..
(men): will you have this women as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in the estate of matriminy? will you love her, honour her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live?
(women): will you have this men as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the estate of matriminy? will you love him, honour him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live?
breaking down into bite size pieces 1) "will you have this.." signifies acceptance 2) "will you live together..." signifies oneness 3) "will you love..." signifies regard and affection 4) "will you honour.." signifies respect and distinction 5) "will you comfort.." signifies relief and consolation 6) "will you keep .." signifes nurturing and protection 7) "will you forsake all others..." signifies commitment 8) "will you be true..." signifies faithfulness
and finally, will you be able to carry out all of these things, for as long as you both shall live?
as you can see, marriage vows are not to be taken lightly or granted.. no wonder my teacher hesitated befiore marrying her husband.. but then in the end she still married him.. and it is a happy marriage... (^___^)