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Saturday, August 23, 2008
communicating and expressing oneself is really important.
i think everyone knows that but me.haha.

expression can be really ambiguous.
what i express might not be what you understand thus causing a misunderstanding.

i have always thought that i don't have to make things too clear because i naively believe that what i express will be sufficient enough for everyone to comprehend.

Especially for my friends, i don really bother to make things too clear for them. That's because i believe that they will understand, even if they misunderstand me i am sure they wont think too badly about the whole thing.

but i guess in a working environment its not like that,maybe its because they are just your colleague, just your work mate, just another passerby in my life.
so you have to make things clear to let them fully understand why you do this . why you ask this. why is this thing with you.
its tiring to keep explaining yourself when soo many why why why just keeping popping out in front of your face. but i don have a choice.

this is just a feedback from a newbie in this strange & cold working life.

when i am in a new environment.the cycle that i faces.
1st: COMPLAIN
2nd:reminisce
3nd: i adept

going for lesson after work is horrible.
but something about me is that even though i complain that that i don wanna go for lecture, i will still go for it.
the best part is that when there are days when i am really tired and i tell myself that if i stone and misses the station i will just head home. but those were the days i never miss the station. SHIT.
hahahaha...